I can't make up my mind about something.
I like getting head. It feels awesome and in some ways is much more intimate than 'ordinary' sex. But in all the years I've had both men and women work on me, I've never been able to cum just from getting sucked.
The range of people trying has included girlfriends, wives, professionals from when I was in Germany and Spain and not a few gay men (who are excellent dick suckers, let me tell you). The methods may have all been a touch different but they all felt phenomenal. I've never had a bad blowjob.
The sensation is pretty strong on the head and along the dorsal side of my cock, but I just don't seem to be able to reach the point of finishing unless I use my hands or have actual intercourse.
Now I know porn isn't really a good measure of actual sex. What happens on those sets is nothing short of bullshit on film. It's not realistic and I don't honestly think most of the women are having that good of a time. A lot of them look either bored, in pain, or appear to be doing their taxes in their heads.
But without fail, they slap their lips on some guys king sized dong and within seconds he's shooting 2.3 gallons of jizz everywhere. The writer in me calls bullshit every time I see a woman lick a man two or three times and he blasts off. Unless the guy is suffering from a medical condition, its unlikely that he would cum that fast.
The problem is, porn gives the wrong idea about what's possible. It actually gives the wrong idea about what human beings are physically capable of. Some of those positions would hurt anyone who wasn't a fucking contortionist.
I think that's why I like the 'home made' looking stuff. At least those people are more real. They are short and tall, skinny and fat, some of them are ugly as sin. You know, average people you actually see on the street. And the guys don't cum 14 seconds after she locks her lips on him.
But still, I wonder if maybe there's something I need to talk to a doctor about. I realize that I won't cum right away, but you'd think that eventually I could.
The part that makes me wonder about why I can't cum concerns my search for the full body orgasm. If I am having trouble with what is essentially a direct assault on a nerve cluster what chance do I have to get parts of my body tingling that aren't normally involved in sex at all?
Is it mental? Is it physical? Hell, how would I even go about finding out. I'm not about to ask my regular doctor...
I like getting head. It feels awesome and in some ways is much more intimate than 'ordinary' sex. But in all the years I've had both men and women work on me, I've never been able to cum just from getting sucked.
The range of people trying has included girlfriends, wives, professionals from when I was in Germany and Spain and not a few gay men (who are excellent dick suckers, let me tell you). The methods may have all been a touch different but they all felt phenomenal. I've never had a bad blowjob.
The sensation is pretty strong on the head and along the dorsal side of my cock, but I just don't seem to be able to reach the point of finishing unless I use my hands or have actual intercourse.
Now I know porn isn't really a good measure of actual sex. What happens on those sets is nothing short of bullshit on film. It's not realistic and I don't honestly think most of the women are having that good of a time. A lot of them look either bored, in pain, or appear to be doing their taxes in their heads.
But without fail, they slap their lips on some guys king sized dong and within seconds he's shooting 2.3 gallons of jizz everywhere. The writer in me calls bullshit every time I see a woman lick a man two or three times and he blasts off. Unless the guy is suffering from a medical condition, its unlikely that he would cum that fast.
The problem is, porn gives the wrong idea about what's possible. It actually gives the wrong idea about what human beings are physically capable of. Some of those positions would hurt anyone who wasn't a fucking contortionist.
I think that's why I like the 'home made' looking stuff. At least those people are more real. They are short and tall, skinny and fat, some of them are ugly as sin. You know, average people you actually see on the street. And the guys don't cum 14 seconds after she locks her lips on him.
But still, I wonder if maybe there's something I need to talk to a doctor about. I realize that I won't cum right away, but you'd think that eventually I could.
The part that makes me wonder about why I can't cum concerns my search for the full body orgasm. If I am having trouble with what is essentially a direct assault on a nerve cluster what chance do I have to get parts of my body tingling that aren't normally involved in sex at all?
Is it mental? Is it physical? Hell, how would I even go about finding out. I'm not about to ask my regular doctor...
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